Rehoming a pet after a loved one has passed is never easy, especially on those left behind to grieve their loss – including the cat.
Frances: Hi Pete – I understand your mom passed away, and now you are living with your mom’s daughter and her cat, Suzy.
Pete: Yes, that is what is happening with me. So why do I have to stay here?
Frances: Well, what would be the alternative? Living on the streets without food, water, and a roof over your head.
Pete: Yeah, I guess that could be a concern. I do like to eat. I just don’t like this pesky cat that is already here.
Frances: Why don’t you like her?
Pete: She acts like I invaded her space.
Frances: But really, that is what happened. It isn’t her fault you are there. It isn’t anybody’s fault – it is what life is. Sometimes it is very unpredictable. Can you stop fighting and pouncing on Suzy? She hasn’t done anything to provoke this behavior. Has she?
Pete: No, not really.
Frances: Your home is big enough for both of you. You don’t have to be in the same room at the same time. Why don’t you sit near a window and watch the birds outside or play with the toys that are around? Your new mom is upset that you are making it difficult for Suzy to relax with your aggressive behavior. What do you think?
Pete: Yeah, I have been a bit rough on her. I know my new mom has been upset with me. I’ve been upset too with Mom being gone, too. I suppose I can stick to myself and allow my new mom to grieve without me adding to her worries.
Frances: Mom would really appreciate that. I can talk with you again if you need to get anything off your chest, so to speak.
Pete: Thank you, I would like that. Please tell Mom I will do better. I’m sorry I have been so aggressive to Suzy – I will do better. I guess I need more time to grieve, too.
Frances: Thank you, Pete. I’m rooting for you. Be good to yourself, too.
Pete: I will. Thank you for talking with me.
Frances: My pleasure, Pete.
For the Love of Animals,
