Wishing you a Paws-itively Perfect
Holiday & New Year
Rescued pets have a special place in my heart. They are sometimes fostered in various homes or taken from a home for unforeseen reasons. They aren’t included in the details of what happened and why they are no longer staying in this home, with this mom or dad. They react as scared beings as though they are just expected to pick up their life where they left off – but they have fears and feelings like we do. Consider the understanding at the child-like level where they are unsure of their surroundings or the people who are now in their life. All the love in the world can’t help or fix their fears – that’s where I come in and explain and answer their questions. I hope I can help your rescued pet one day.
Here’s a bit of Rudy’s story:
Rudy is an 8-year-old Tibetan Spaniel who was surrendered to the shelter with no history. He was adopted 3 months ago by his new family and is very timid and hides in the closet when he is afraid. They love him very much and want him to be happy. Here is a portion of our conversation, and a bit of a revelation of his past.
Hi Rudy – how are you?
I guess I’m ok why?
Your family asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
I guess so but who’s my family?
The nice people who you are living with, who feed you and pet you and love you.
So, am I staying here?
Yes, honey this is your forever home. This family loves you and will take care of you forever. Does that make sense?
I suppose so. I wasn’t sure why I was here, but I do like them. Sometimes things are a bit loud and so many different things going on. I kind of wish it was quieter. I like the quiet. I get very scared with so many people moving around me.
I will let them know so maybe being more aware of that can help you settle down and relax more.
Thank you that would be helpful.
Do you miss your previous home?
Yes, very much. My mom was an older lady who didn’t come home one day so I was taken away. [I feel she was hospitalized and then passed away.]
I’m sorry that happened. I’m sure she loved you very much, but life happens out of our control sometimes. You now have a loving family to care for you and love you. Are you ready to open your heart to them?
Yes, thank you for telling me that. I guess I thought maybe I did something wrong, so she left me. I was sad thinking if I did it again, they would abandon me too. I’m feeling better now that you let me know I didn’t do anything wrong.
Slowly but surely, you will get more comfortable with your new family and surroundings. Allow them into your heart. You can trust them. They will not hurt you.
Oh, I am so glad you talked with me. I’m feeling better already.
You’re very welcome, Rudy. Just take it one day at a time and ease into your new loving family. Ok?
Ok bye.
I guess I’m ok why?
Your family asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
I guess so but who’s my family?
The nice people who you are living with, who feed you and pet you and love you.
So, am I staying here?
Yes, honey this is your forever home. This family loves you and will take care of you forever. Does that make sense?
I suppose so. I wasn’t sure why I was here, but I do like them. Sometimes things are a bit loud and so many different things going on. I kind of wish it was quieter. I like the quiet. I get very scared with so many people moving around me.
I will let them know so maybe being more aware of that can help you settle down and relax more.
Thank you that would be helpful.
Do you miss your previous home?
Yes, very much. My mom was an older lady who didn’t come home one day so I was taken away. [I feel she was hospitalized and then passed away.]
I’m sorry that happened. I’m sure she loved you very much, but life happens out of our control sometimes. You now have a loving family to care for you and love you. Are you ready to open your heart to them?
Yes, thank you for telling me that. I guess I thought maybe I did something wrong, so she left me. I was sad thinking if I did it again, they would abandon me too. I’m feeling better now that you let me know I didn’t do anything wrong.
Slowly but surely, you will get more comfortable with your new family and surroundings. Allow them into your heart. You can trust them. They will not hurt you.
Oh, I am so glad you talked with me. I’m feeling better already.
You’re very welcome, Rudy. Just take it one day at a time and ease into your new loving family. Ok?
Ok bye.
For the Love of Animals,
Frances
