Showing posts with label animal rescue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label animal rescue. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 10, 2024

Starting Anew – Being Grateful for You


Starting Anew – Being Grateful for You

With the start of the new year, I am grateful for my clients both past and present.  I am so surprised when after many years have passed, my clients reappear with new and grateful pets that they have rescued and brought into their family.

Rescued animals start anew when they come to a new home. They don’t know where they are or how long they are going to stay. When I tell them this is their forever home, they are so relieved.  They are so grateful to have food in their stomachs, a roof over their head and the warmth of a loving home.  They have memories of days past, so good and some not so good.  I assure them that their new mom or dad loves them very much and are so happy to have them join their family home.  When they first come to a new home, they are unsure of the situation, the rules of the home and what is expected of them.  From past experiences, they may act in an odd way that seems out of place.  They tell me it is what their first mom wanted from them, so they didn’t think it was odd at all.  I let them know that their new mom would rather that they not do this behavior, but to do something specifically different so they know what is expected of them.  Once explained the “what” and “why” it makes sense to them and how in their new life they can please their new mom (or dad).  They are just truly happy to have a safe and healthy home to live in for the rest of their lives. 

Blessings to you and your family (furry, feathered, two-legged or four) in the new year and talk with you again soon.


For the Love of Animals, 


Frances

 

Sunday, August 13, 2023

Animal Care Resources 2025




Pet Walkers, Sitters and Trainers


Arf Dog Walks

Rise Taylor 949-554-9700



Judy’s Loving Care - Judy Steward 

Judyjsteward@gmail.com

949-278-7876



Lisa the Critter-Sitter 

949-292-6572


Patties Pet Care and Housesitting

Pattie Meyers 949-370-0087



Penny Pampers Pets    

949-600-8885 cell:  949-677-4930


Downward Dog

Dog walking, day camps, overnight boarding.

Ivy 949-244-8606


Dog Trainer

Companion Dogs by Dr. Sue Myles

Concierge Dog Training For Pets & Their People

714-696-8939

speak@suemyles.com


Dog walker/sitter (San Diego area)

Roseanne - via Rover app


Truly TLC Pet Sitting 

Lynn: (949) 331-5399

Jared: (949) 365-6877

info@trulytlcpetsitting.com





Rescues and Organizations


Barks of Love Animal Rescue and Placement Services

PO Box 4156  Fullerton, CA 92834 

Rescue@barksoflove.org  

Fax #: (714) 598-3355



Orange County People for Animals 

Dina Kourda 

dina.kourda@ocpausa.org 

949-939-4860 / 714-751-6272


Danielle's Reptile Relocation  
707-696-4691

Heaven's Gate Large Animal Rescue 
760-490-2818
922 Los Coyotes, Yucca Valley

Joey's Home Horse Rescue  
760-401-2208



Petfinder - Cats 


Kitten Rescue LW Catmom’s Adoptions 


Linda 949-348-2640 lwcatmom@pacbell.net

Phyllis 323-394-0954  phyllis@millerburg.com

Julie 61-313-5193 cleanjust42day@msn.com

Kitten Rescue 818-347-3037 mail@kittenrescue.org 


Pet Project Foundation


Microchip Lookup



Lost Pet Detection 

Landa Coldiron 

caninesearchdog@hotmail.com

(818) 442-2952



Pet Locator app - Pet protection network





Groomers

17th St. Dog Spaw

285 E. 17th St., Costa Mesa

949-646-5497





Pet Food


Arcana Dog and Cat Food

"Biologically Appropriate"  mirrors your pet’s evolutionary diet. 


Paw Tree

Nutritional pet food and natural products

Vickie Marx  949-360-7773 


Truth About Pet Food

Information about pet food ingredients, regulations, recalls and more. 


Dog Food Advisor

List of recently recalled dog foods. 




Pet Health



Low Cost Veterinary Care


Dr. Marc Bittan, DVM
22775 Pacific Coast Highway (PCH)
Malibu, CA 90265  (310) 231-4415


Dr. Jon Sultzer
Laguna Hills Animal Hospital
24271 El Toro Road,
Laguna Woods, CA 92637
(949) 837-7333


Pets Acupuncture

Jacqueline Heller, DVM

Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist

Veterinary Holistic Care Serving South Orange County

(949) 547-0112 



Animal and Bird Clinic of Mission Viejo 

Dr. Peter Bloch

24912 Chrisanta Drive

Mission Viejo, 92691

(949) 768-3651



Cat Faeries

Enzymes and sprays to address feline spraying and urine issues

PO Box 31885

San Francisco, CA 94131

CatFaeries@catfaeries.com



InVet

Arthramine for Healthy Joints & Bones 

Glucosamine is great for older dogs with stiff joints, add to their food and can be purchased at your local pet store.



Center for Animal Physical Rehabilitation and Mobility Solutions

Caroline Goulard DVM, CCRT, CVA, CVPP

24310 Moulton Pkwy Suite N, Laguna Woods, CA 92637

(949) 813-4107  


Tustin Care Animal Hospital 

Dr. Deena Leong

14051-B Newport Ave. Tustin, CA 92780

(657)266-0322



ZugoPet

Multifunctional pet products including pet safety car seat harness.  




Euthanasia & Hospice Care


Lap of Love

Nationwide home-based veterinary hospice and euthanasia. 

(855)933-5683

Blogspot

Facebook

Paws On the Go

Facebook



Dr. Hannah Curtis (Orange County, California area)

www.drhannahcurtis.com

drhannahcurtis@gmail.com



Home Pet Euthanasia

Compassionate and Caring End of Life Care

Dr. Annie Forslund

360 E. First Street, Suite #109; Tustin, CA 92780

(657) 255-8611




 

Thursday, April 6, 2023

Happy National Pet Day!


April 11th is National Pet Day which is a day dedicated to encouraging the adoption of orphaned pets into a loving furever home. #NationalPetDay #PetRescue #PetAdoption


Note from my client: 


Sweet Pea


"Sweet Pea was adopted from Frosted Faces in Ramona 5 months ago. Her wisdom DNA says she is 45% Chihuahua but I don’t see it. I’ve had estimates of her age as between 8 and 12 years old. She’s a girl. I would like to be able to find out how much she is able to see and hear. To my mind, she is blind and deaf but I know there’s something there."

My conversation with Sweet Pea:  
Frances:  Hi Sweet Pea – How are you?

Sweet Pea:  I’m ok [she sounds very timid].

Frances:  Do you know you are loved and safe with your new mom? She will never give you away or hurt you in any way. This is your forever home. You can relax and just enjoy the rest of your life.

Sweet Pea:  Are you sure?

Frances: Yes, honey, I am sure. She is a very nice lady, and you will always have food and a roof over your head. And. especially lots of hugs and kisses if you’ll let her.

Sweet Pea:  Oh, that sounds really good to me. Thank you for telling me that. I was afraid this was just another place I was staying until they get tired of me and then I go somewhere else.

Frances: Can I ask how you are seeing? How are your eyes?

Sweet Pea:  Well, not as good as I used to but I can see images that are big.  Because I don’t always hear people coming, I’m afraid I’ll get stepped on, so I like to go under stuff.

Frances: So, you don’t hear very well?

Sweet Pea:  Not really well, I feel like everyone mumbles and I feel the vibration on the floor when they come.

Frances: Your new mom suspected you had issues with your eyes and ears so now she knows. This is no problem for you or Mom, it can be expected when you get a little older. It happens to people too.

Sweet Pea:  So, she won’t be mad at me?

Frances: No honey, she won’t be mad at you. She knows you need some help to feel comfortable in your new home. Is there anything you would like to tell Mom?

Sweet Pea:  Thank you for taking me home with you. I wasn’t sure if you were going to keep me or not, so I guess I was holding back. That’s part of why I run away when you want to pick me up. I was afraid you were going to put me in a container and take me someplace else to live. I am happy you want to keep me. I will try to be the best dog I can be. I would like to be able to receive hugs and kisses from you. It’s been a long time since I trusted anyone to do that. Many times I was picked up and thrown around by kids who really didn’t know better and parents who didn’t pay attention. Please be patient and I will try to overcome my fears and insecurity. Talking with this lady really helped me to understand I’m staying. That’s a big deal to me. I’m so very happy to hear this news. Thank you again for doing this for me and I will be the best dog that I can be.

Frances: Thank you, Sweet Pea. That is a lovely message for your new mom. I will be talking with her shortly. Bye for now.

Sweet Pea:  Bye, thank you again for talking with me. I can already feel myself being more relaxed.

Frances: That’s wonderful to hear Sweet Pea. Talk again soon.

Sweet Pea:  Ok bye.


For the Love of Animals,
Frances



 

Friday, January 7, 2022

Happy 2022!



Happy New Year to you all.  I am so excited to greet 2022 with hope and optimism that it will be healthy, safe and prosperous for you and your furry, feathered and scaled friends. Last year brought a new reality of normal to many – including new pets that got used to mom and dad working from home.  For rescued pets who had a life before they came to live with you, they have their experiences, fears and expectations to overcome.  Abandonment is a very scary thing and now that many of us are working from home, they expect us to always be by our side – like 24/7 – or fear you are never coming back home.  This was part of a recent reading with Frankie.

Hi Frankie – how are you? 
I’m ok I guess why?

Mom asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
I guess so, why? 

Do you know how much your mom loves you?
Well, I think I do but I get scared when I don’t see her.

That’s what I want to talk about.  Mom will always be there for you.  This is your forever home.  I understand you had a dad but he’s not there anymore.  This had nothing to do with you.  Sometimes humans stay together and sometimes they don’t.  It’s a human thing.  But you will always stay with mom.
 Are you sure? 

Yes, Frankie I am sure – she loves you very much – that’s why we are talking.  I will talk to mom on how to tell you when she leaves where she is going and when she’ll be back.  She will always be back but sometimes she may go for a few days.  Humans need to do that sometimes.  But you will always be cared for and have food in your tummy.  Does that make sense?
 I am afraid she won’t come back. Thank you for explaining it to me.  My last family just packed up and left and I was on the streets looking for them.  I didn’t understand how they could just leave me.

I’m sorry that happened to you.  Sometimes humans have things happen in their lives and they may not think of all the details.  I’m sure they didn’t mean to forget about you but may have been struggling in their lives.  Your mom now has a wonderful extended family who love animals like you and would never let anything bad ever happen to you.  I promise, they are very good people. 
Thank you, I was afraid I did something bad, so they didn’t want me anymore.  I was afraid I would do the same thing with mom, and she would get rid of me too. 

Is that why you whine in the car?
Yes, I’m afraid she’s going to drop me off someplace and not pick me up.

Mom will never do that to you.  I will talk to her about how to share with you where you are going so you don’t have to be anxious in the car.  It can be a fun adventure instead.  Seeing new places and new people.  Just know that you can’t go everywhere with mom.  Dogs aren’t allowed everywhere, and mom needs to be able to go out and have fun with her friends, right?
Yeah, I guess you’re right.  I was so afraid she didn’t want me or wouldn’t come home to me.  Now I know she will, but I need to know all the details, so I won’t worry so much. 

Yes, Frankie, I will explain to mom how to tell you all the details you need to know.  Some things are human things and won’t make sense, but you will know what you need to know – each and every time she leaves the house, ok? 
Thank you, oh that makes me feel better already.  I can relax more and play more.  I was almost afraid to play in case I did something wrong, I love mom so much, I don’t want her to be mad at me.

You don’t have to be afraid of mom getting mad, no matter what you may think you did wrong, mom will always be there for you and love you. Anything you want to tell mom?
Thank you so much for bringing me to your home.  I love you so much and was afraid you would leave or take me someplace to drop me off and not come back.  I can relax now and open my heart fully.  I was holding back just in case you didn’t love me like I love you.  Now I can love you even more!

You are so sweet, Frankie, yes now you can love even more with no fears at all to hold you back.  I’ll be talking with mom shortly and we’ll talk more, ok? 
Ok, thank you for talking with me.

You are very welcome, Frankie – my pleasure.  Bye for now. 
Bye.


For the Love of Animals,
Frances


 

Friday, December 3, 2021

Happy Paw-lidays!


 Wishing you a Paws-itively Perfect

Holiday & New Year

 

Rescued pets have a special place in my heart.  They are sometimes fostered in various homes or taken from a home for unforeseen reasons.  They aren’t included in the details of what happened and why they are no longer staying in this home, with this mom or dad.  They react as scared beings as though they are just expected to pick up their life where they left off – but they have fears and feelings like we do.  Consider the understanding at the child-like level where they are unsure of their surroundings or the people who are now in their life.  All the love in the world can’t help or fix their fears – that’s where I come in and explain and answer their questions.  I hope I can help your rescued pet one day. 

Here’s a bit of Rudy’s story:
Rudy is an 8-year-old Tibetan Spaniel who was surrendered to the shelter with no history.  He was adopted 3 months ago by his new family and is very timid and hides in the closet when he is afraid.  They love him very much and want him to be happy.  Here is a portion of our conversation, and a bit of a revelation of his past.

Hi Rudy – how are you?
I guess I’m ok why? 

Your family asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
I guess so but who’s my family?

The nice people who you are living with, who feed you and pet you and love you.
So, am I staying here? 

Yes, honey this is your forever home.  This family loves you and will take care of you forever.  Does that make sense? 
I suppose so.  I wasn’t sure why I was here, but I do like them.  Sometimes things are a bit loud and so many different things going on.  I kind of wish it was quieter.  I like the quiet.  I get very scared with so many people moving around me. 

I will let them know so maybe being more aware of that can help you settle down and relax more. 
Thank you that would be helpful.

Do you miss your previous home?
Yes, very much.  My mom was an older lady who didn’t come home one day so I was taken away.   [I feel she was hospitalized and then passed away.]

I’m sorry that happened.  I’m sure she loved you very much, but life happens out of our control sometimes.  You now have a loving family to care for you and love you.  Are you ready to open your heart to them?
Yes, thank you for telling me that.  I guess I thought maybe I did something wrong, so she left me.  I was sad thinking if I did it again, they would abandon me too.  I’m feeling better now that you let me know I didn’t do anything wrong. 

Slowly but surely, you will get more comfortable with your new family and surroundings.  Allow them into your heart.  You can trust them.  They will not hurt you.
 Oh, I am so glad you talked with me.  I’m feeling better already. 

You’re very welcome, Rudy. Just take it one day at a time and ease into your new loving family. Ok?
Ok bye.


For the Love of Animals,
Frances

Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Adopting a New Pet: Finding the Right Companion


Adopting a New Pet:
Finding the Right Companion

Adopting a new pet after one has transitioned can be tricky, especially when there is a surviving companion grieving the loss. When is it OK? Grieving appears with signs such as loss of appetite, lack of desire to thrive and sleeping more than usual. Just like humans, the animals grieve the loss of a loved one.

In doing this work of animal communication, I have found the pets who stay behind, while in their grief, or even a year or two later, can be very possessive of their owners. Introducing a new pet, without asking them first, can create havoc. There can be jealousy of the new pet or anger at you for bringing in another. How can you replace their dear companion?

Norton is a 15-year-old domestic shorthair orange male cat that was not keen on the new dog joining the family.

Norton:  Why did he get the dog? Wasn't I enough? Is he going to replace me? I try to be good. I've been giving him more attention since the dog's been here - why is he so loud? He doesn't let me sleep in peace. I just want to be left alone and he comes and sniffs around me.

Me:  The dog needed a good home so dad brought him home - you can share dad can't you?

Norton:  I suppose - as long as he doesn't eat my food - I eat all my food so he won't get it.

Me: You don't have to do that - there will always be enough for you - I'll make sure dad puts your dish where the dog can't get to it, OK?

Norton:  OK that will help - thanks. Tell dad I love him OK? I don't get to say that to him so he understands.

Bubba, a cat that was depressed as he was missing the daughter (he called "mom") that was away on vacation and he was overhearing conversations of her going away to medical school:

Bubba:  Why did mom leave me? I know they love me too - but I miss my mom. Bring mom back or take me to her.

Me:  I asked if hearing her voice would help. Sometimes it can help to put the phone on speaker and having the pet hear the voice of the person they are missing.

Bubba:  Yes, hearing her voice will help. I like my food. My other moms are nice, but they aren't mom. My house is nice, my bed is nice. I miss my mom. I want my mom.

Me:  Playmate?

Bubba:  Maybe - but I'm the boss. Maybe a girlfriend? I might like that - I never had a girlfriend before. One that looks like me? I'd like that - yeah that could be fun.

When my client is thinking of bringing in another pet, after the loss of a dear companion, I tune in to the surviving companion for guidance. Have they cleared the grieving process? Is there anger towards the owner for "taking their companion" away? Do they understand the death process? Are they seeing their companion's spirit around them?


Excerpts taken from my books: What Do Your Pets Want You to Know?, More Messages from the Animals, and Lessons from the Animals available on Amazon and Kindle.

For the Love of Animals,

Frances

Learn how a pet can help boost your mood.




 

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Animal Resources - 2019





Pet Walkers, Sitters & Trainers

Arf Dog Walks
Rise Taylor 949-554-9700


Judy’s Loving Care - Judy Steward 
949-278-7876


949-292-6572

Pattie Meyers 949-370-0087


949-600-8885 cell:  949-677-4930

Downward Dog
Dog walking, day camps, overnight boarding.
Ivy 949-244-8606

Dog Trainer
Companion Dogs by Dr. Sue Myles
Concierge Dog Training For Pets & Their People
714-696-8939
speak@suemyles.com


Rescues and Organizations

PO Box 4156  Fullerton, CA 92834 
Rescue@barksoflove.org  
Fax #: (714) 598-3355


Dina Kourda 
dina.kourda@ocpausa.org 
949-939-4860 / 714-751-6272



Kitten Rescue LW Catmom’s Adoptions 

Linda 949-348-2640 lwcatmom@pacbell.net
Phyllis 323-394-0954  phyllis@millerburg.com
Julie 61-313-5193 cleanjust42day@msn.com
Kitten Rescue 818-347-3037 mail@kittenrescue.org 



Groomers
285 E. 17th St., Costa Mesa
949-646-5497



Pet Health

Jacqueline Heller DVM
Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist

Acupuncture for Pets & Veterinary Holistic Care Serving South Orange County
(949) 547-0112


Dr. Peter Bloch
24912 Chrisanta Drive
Mission Viejo, 92691
(949) 768-3651


Enzymes and sprays to address feline spraying and urine issues
PO Box 31885
San Francisco, CA 94131

CatFaeries@catfaeries.com


Compassionate and Caring End of Life Care
Dr. Annie Forslund
360 E. First Street, Suite #109; Tustin, CA 92780
(657) 255-8611


Arthramine for Healthy Joints & Bones 
Glucosamine is great for older dogs with stiff joints, add to their food and can be purchased at your local pet store.

Nationwide home-based veterinary hospice and euthanasia. 
(855)933-5683

Center for Animal Physical Rehabilitation and Mobility Solutions
Caroline Goulard DVM, CCRT, CVA, CVPP
24310 Moulton Pkwy Suite N, Laguna Woods, CA 92637
(949) 813-4107  

Dr. Deena Leong
14051-B Newport Ave. Tustin, CA 92780
(657)266-0322


Multifunctional pet products including pet safety car seat harness.  


Pet Food
"Biologically Appropriate"  mirrors your pet’s evolutionary diet. 

Nutritional pet food and natural products
Vickie Marx  949-360-7773 

Information about pet food ingredients, regulations, recalls and more. 

Dog Food Advisor
List of recently recalled dog foods.