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Frances W. Greenspan is an animal communicator, intuitive, author, teacher and former pet groomer who has been actively involved in the world of animals from an early age. As an only child, her dogs and cats were her first playmates. Frances speaks with animals both here and to those who have crossed over. She tunes in telepathically to their spirit/higher self to ask questions and receive their answers.
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When bringing another pet into your home it is important to make sure your family is ready for the addition – and that means the pet who has been an only pet for all his life with you.
My client has a cat named Homer, he is approximately 16 years old and was rescued 10 years ago. He has been a single pet, although she tried to introduce other cats in the beginning, and he reacted badly.
Lately she has befriended a cat, whom she named Dusty, who appeared on her hillside, and she’s been feeding him. He is now limping badly and she’s keeping him in a bedroom, separate from Homer. He is being neutered and his leg treated.
Here is my conversation with Homer:
Frances: Hi Homer – how are you?
Homer: I’m ok, why?
Frances: Your mom asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
Homer: Yeah, I suppose so. What about?
Frances: You know she loves you very much, right?
Homer: Yeah, so?
Frances: So, she would like to bring another cat to join your family. He is living outside, and it isn’t safe for him due to the coyotes – the big mean dog like animals. They eat cats and other animals as they don’t have a loving mom like you do.
Homer: So why are you telling me this?
Frances: She would like you to accept the new cat and be kind to him. There is plenty of food and love for both of you, you know that, right?
Homer: Yeah, I get that, but aren’t I enough?
Frances: Yes, of course you are – you are more than enough. But there is so much love for more and more kindness to share too. He needs a safe place to live, and your mom would like you to be kind and accepting to this new cat.
Homer: Oh, I suppose so as long as he doesn’t get into my stuff.
Frances: He’ll have his own stuff, but it would be nice of you to share some stuff.
Homer: Yeah, I suppose so.
Frances: Thank you, Homer. Would you like to tell your mom anything?
Homer: Please tell Mom I love her very much and sorry I’ve been making such a fuss over other animals coming inside. I guess I was being kind of selfish. I know what it’s like not having a loving family to care for you. Thank you for all you do for me, and I guess we’re expanding the family – at least by one more. I know I’m getting older and won’t be around forever so this might be a good fit to have another be there when it’s my time to go. Not planning on anytime soon, but you know, thinking ahead as I don’t know when I’ll have this chance to talk to you like this.
Frances: Thank you, Homer – I know Mom will appreciate your change of heart. Bye for now.
Homer: Bye and thank you for talking with me.
Frances: My pleasure, Homer.
For the Love of Animals,
Frances
I recently found a printed copy of a talk I gave in 2011 at the Temple of Light in Lake Forest, CA. As I read the talk I was reminded of some of my favorite early conversations and lessons while speaking with the animals.
Animals take on things for us such as (emotions, illnesses) and represents aspects or needs in our lives - like the need to receive unconditional love, giving our full attention to them and staying with us until a human love comes into our life, a partner or a baby. Our life changes and their purpose for us has been fulfilled.
Over the holidays my cat Itty-Bitty Kitty took on an upper respiratory infection, a cold. People all around me were ill with colds, but not me. I had my health, no problem at all. My poor kitty had to be on antibiotics and fluids. I thanked him and let him know he didn’t have to do that in the future. I beefed up my immune system with vitamins.
Animals have feelings and emotions just like humans although they are much more forgiving and most don’t hold grudges. I say most because I asked Buddy a Pitbull terrier why he didn’t like the brown poodle. When he was walked by the house, Buddy barked and barked. I asked what the brown poodle said to him that got him so upset. He replied, “He called me ugly.”
Nala is a female mixed breed adopted only six weeks prior to this phone reading. She was hesitant to be affectionate or receive affection from the family. I asked her why. She told me she didn’t want to get too close since she wouldn’t be staying too long. She thought this was just another foster home, not realizing this was a permanent placement, her forever home. I explained to her that this is her home and the family loves her. My client on the phone started crying saying Nala was coming to her and laid down next to her. She was so happy. Nala was now able to receive affection and was relieved to know this was home.
Feisty is a female West Highland terrier or (Westie). My client called saying she was throwing up, should she take him to the vet? I asked Feisty what was going on. She told me she was nervous about mom‘s upcoming surgery. My client confirmed she was having knee surgery. This was an outpatient procedure so she’ll be home and have someone over to help her. I related this info to Feisty, feeling relieved, the throwing up stopped.
The animals hear our spoken words and our telepathic thoughts so before you call them unkind names or talk of giving them away, etc. know that they hear, feel and know the meanings and may take those emotional releases as real. Not just your frustration expressed.
Vader is a male Lhasa Apso. His mom asked me if there was anything he wanted to tell her. He told me he didn’t want her to call him stupid. She said, “But I don’t call him that to his face”. He also didn’t want to be thrown into the pool. She thought he liked it because he barked. The barking was to tell her to stop. He would go in when he was good and ready.
Lucky was a 15 year-old Springer Spaniel who is deaf and almost blind. His mom wanted to know if he was ready to go to heaven. He said, “No, the food‘s too good”. I didn’t know that she had special marked meat in the freezer labeled “Lucky” that she cooked for him every day.
I hope you enjoyed my travels down memory lane.
For the Love of Animals,
Frances
My client was concerned about his dog Raymond who is a 7-year-old male mini schnauzer mix. His husband passed away three years ago and has been working through his grief. Throughout the years Raymond has occasionally urinated in the house. However, when my client returned from a recent vacation the occasional urinating had become a constant whenever he would leave him for any amount of time. He had him medically checked for urinary tract infection, diabetes, kidney function and a complete blood panel. The results were all within normal ranges.
Here is a portion of the initial conversation with Raymond:
Frances: Hi Raymond – how are you?
Raymond: I’m ok, I guess.
Frances: You guess? What’s going on?
Raymond: I guess I’m bored. I know I have toys, but I want to go outside and play with other dogs. I want to go to a park with grass. I like seeing other places, people and dogs.
Frances: Is that why you are peeing in the house? Are you mad at Dad for leaving you alone sometimes?
Raymond: Not just leaving me, but he doesn’t tell me where he is going and how long he’s going to be away. Why can’t I go with him? What’s wrong with me that he can’t take me with him? I miss playing with my other dad.
Frances: I’m sorry, Raymond – it’s hard on us when our dads pass away. Does he ever come to visit?
Raymond: He used to but he stopped coming to visit us.
Frances: Is that when you started peeing in the house more?
Raymond: Well, kind of, yeah. My dad went away and didn’t tell me anything, so I got mad. Every time he leaves and doesn’t take me, I get mad. It’s not fair. What if something happens to him too? What happens to me?
Frances: Honey, I’m sorry you are upset with your dad for leaving you. It scares you that he’s not coming back, right?
Raymond: Yes, I get really scared I’ll be all alone.
Frances: Raymond, your dad loves you and will always come back to you. I will tell him how to tell you where he is going and when he is coming back so you won’t be scared for him to leave the house, ok?)
Raymond: Ok. I guess I kind of got myself all worked up with worry, didn’t I?
Frances: Yes, honey, I think you did, but that’s understandable when we get scared, we do things we don’t normally do – like peeing in the house, right?
Raymond: Yeah. I’m sorry. I know it upsets dad. Please tell him I’m sorry for that, ok?
Frances: Yes, honey, I will tell him. Is there anything else you want to tell him?
Raymond: Please tell him I love him so much and just get scared when he leaves the house. Maybe he can take me sometimes? I’ll be good, I promise.
Frances: We will talk a bit later this morning. Bye for now.
Raymond: Bye and thank you for talking with me.
Frances: You’re very welcome, Raymond.
During our appointment I shared with my client the way to share his comings and goings – not by hours of the clock, but by the actions of the day (breakfast, lunch, dinner, bedtime) i.e. “I’m going to go to dinner with Joe and I’ll be back before bedtime.” In the case of overnight or vacation days I describe it as how many times the sun goes down i.e. “I will be going on a vacation and be back 7 times the sun goes down. Aunt Susie will be staying here to make sure you have food and walks.”
I asked about the timing of the vacation and my client realized that on this trip he had released his grief of the loss of his husband. His husband stopped coming around, so Raymond no longer was seeing him. I assured Raymond that he didn’t love him any less, but dad no longer needed his energy to move forward in his life.
Two weeks later I received a follow-up email from my client: Since our session two weeks ago, I have been using the time techniques you gave me, and there have only been 3 peeing accidents during this time. Thank you and I will keep using them.
For the Love of Animals,
Frances
Roby is a 15-year-old male Chihuahua who had failing health. My client contacted me to check in with Roby to find out that he was indeed, ready to go. I always have a conversation with the pet before the appointment with my client and I then read the information to the client during the appointment.
In the initial session, Roby told me: “Please let Mom know I am ready to go when she is. I will always be in her heart and when she thinks of me, I will be there beside her to guide her as the little pup on her shoulder.” I took that as a metaphorical answer, as a symbol of his love always being with his mom. When we did our Zoom call, I noticed my client was adorned with several tattoos. I asked her if she was thinking about getting a tattoo of Roby on her shoulder. That is exactly what she was planning on doing but didn’t know if he wanted a paw or his picture.
Roby was enthusiastic and said, “Yes, I want my picture on her shoulder". My client replied she knew exactly which picture she would have tattooed on her shoulder. This was a first for me. It was very exciting for me to share both of their wishes, and do the right thing for each other.
Patsy is a 14-year-old Havanese female dog who seemed very anxious, generally at night, pacing back and forth. On car rides with Dad to her physical therapy water treatments for her back leg, she gets very anxious, panting heavily and jumping between seats, making it very unsafe for her dad to drive with her in his lap to calm her down.
Here’s part of our conversation:
Frances: Mom and Dad asked if I would talk with you, is that ok?
Patsy: Sure, anything for mom and dad. I love them very much. I know I am getting older; my hearing is gone, and my eyesight is blurry. I feel ok, I suppose, nothing to complain about, but I do know my time is limited. I don’t want them to do anything special to extend my life and will do my best to go on my own when the time is right. Not yet, but you know what I mean. I’m glad I have this opportunity to tell them how much I have loved our life together. They are the best mom and dad I could have ever had, especially in my later years – the food is so good! I get special treatment, and I love it!
Frances: Thank you, Patsy. When you pace in the evenings, what are you wanting from your mom and dad?
Patsy: I get anxious at night because I am afraid that I won’t wake up in the morning.
Frances: What makes you think you won’t wake up in the morning?
Patsy: I had a dream not long ago and one of the previous dogs came to say I was going to join him soon. He didn’t say when, so it just makes me nervous.
Frances: Ok, so the dog in the dream said you would be joining him – but until you do, how about just settling in with mom and dad and enjoying their company? It’s not like you can control it so why pace and worry about it?
Patsy: Hmm, I get what you’re saying.
Frances: Just remind yourself to enjoy the moment with mom and dad. If you start to get anxious, just say to yourself, “I am safe with mom and dad.”)
Patsy: Ok, I’ll try that, thank you.
Frances: You’re very welcome, Patsy. When mom leaves the house, she goes to work and then she comes home. She always comes back. She is safe at work and will be home before dinner. Dad is there to keep you safe and happy; Mom will come back when she gets off work. Does that make sense?
Patsy: Yes, it does – I just don’t understand why she has to leave, why can’t she work from home?
Frances: Her work requires her to physically go to the building of her work.
Patsy: Oh, ok, I guess she has to go then.
Frances: Yes, she does. Why do you pant so much when you go on car rides?
Patsy: I never know where we are going to go, if they are taking me someplace and not picking me up, what if they don’t pick me up?
Frances: I will make sure Mom and Dad tell you where you are going to ease your mind. You will always be picked up unless your mom and dad leave you overnight for special care or if they go out of town and can’t take you.
Patsy: Ok, as long as they tell me, that will help.
Frances: I realized you can’t hear so I will suggest that they talk to you in their thinking voice, like I am doing right now. You will be able to hear them, but they may not be able to hear what you are telling them, so don’t get upset if they don’t hear you.
Patsy: Oh, ok, that sounds good.
Frances: I will talk with Mom and Dad a bit later this morning, by for now.
Patsy: Bye and thank you for talking with me.
Frances: My pleasure Patsy.
During the appointment, for an attitude adjustment before the car ride to therapy, I encouraged Dad to show Patsy to be happy and excited about going to play in the water with her therapist. At night, to calm her down, ask her (in their thinking voice) to join them in sitting quietly and watching TV.
A week later I received an update from Dad:
Re: Patsy Update
Hi Frances!
I wanted to update you on Patsy and her progress since we met last.
The panting and walking around in the living room at night is much better. She spends more time with us lying down and relaxing while watching TV. There have been a couple of times she has still gone back to her old behavior but much better. We are trying to send her a picture of her lying down and relaxing with us.
So, thank you for helping us talk (quiet voice) to Patsy. I know it is a work in progress. We will keep working on it and keep you posted.
Take Care,
J and K
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